Hi, This being my first post I am not sure how to approach those who will be reading this post. However, i hope to reach many people and hear what they Have to say about my assumptions.
After that short introduction why not just get into a discussion?
I think that we all have an opinion about what is means to be beautiful because we have this preconceived idea of what beauty is based on the social construction. I think society shapes most if not all of thoughts in every area of our lives. It begins with our gender identity, or relation to a cis gender and the colors that we wear, the list goes on and on.
Now the big question is what is beauty? Who defines beauty? Where did the whole idea of what beauty is came from? I as I had previously stated I firmly believe that our ideas of what beauty is is shaped based on how we were socially constructed. I believe that colonization and culture place an important role in defining beauty.
On the point of colonization. Due to the fact that most countries were colonized by the whites, it is said that being light skinned or next to being white therefore means that one is beautiful. Such thoughts were instilled and as such individuals started refusing the naps, curls, kinks and level of melanin in their skin in an effort to convert. It has also spread like wild fire in how individuals are hired for particular jobs and also the males perspective of who is “eye candy.”
In doing so erasing their roots, erasing their identity and almost refusing to identify with whom they really are. It has created the bleaching phenomenon, and the expensive habit of plastic surgery, human hair etc.
This is not to say that there are not individuals who embrace the way that they were born whether it be light skinned or dark skin (phrases I personally do not like yo associate myself with).
I believe that there are beautiful black women who embrace who they are, not enhancing body parts but just merely accepting who they are eg. India Arie. There are songs that promote black beauty again I will allude to India Arie and her song “Video” and “Brown Skin.”
I hope that individuals will embrace who they are and just love themselves instead of trying their hardest to change who they are. If you don’t love yourself then it will be difficult for you to love another person. Not that you are being selfish but enabling yourself to appreciate other people.
These are strictly my views and I hope I have not offended anyone.
Hoping to hear what you have to say because I am open to everyone’s opinions and suggestions. Until next time. Keep being lovely.